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welcoming myself to the club
Nov 20
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Behind the Scenes
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Cindy DiTiberio
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Great Expectations
thoughts on the eve of an election
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Our Fair Play Discussion Signaled the End of My Marriage
Feb 20
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Is This the End of Marriage?
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Women Talking: When Married Moms Want to Take Sex Off the Table
Jun 14, 2023
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"You haven't really lived until you receive photos via Whatsapp of your husband at a bar with his beloved"
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Inconvenient Knowings
Nov 28, 2023
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I'm the Decider
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in which I utilize all the analogies to unpack the finalization of my divorce
Oct 23
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Cindy DiTiberio
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Why Divorce Becomes a Full-Time Job
Things I Wish I Known Before Going Through a Divorce #5
Oct 14
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Cindy DiTiberio
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The Pitfalls of Pulling & Sharing
Things I Wish I'd Known Before Going Through a Divorce #4
Oct 8
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Cindy DiTiberio
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What Is Child Support For? (plus the importance of the parenting plan)
Things I Wish I'd Known Before Going Through a Divorce #3
Sep 30
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Cindy DiTiberio
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The Misery of Mortgages and Divorce
Things I Wish I'd Known Before Going Through a Divorce #2
Sep 23
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Triggers and Boundaries
getting real about day 610 of a divorce
Sep 17
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Things I Wish I'd Known Before Going Through a Divorce #1
a word on mediation
Sep 16
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Cindy DiTiberio
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"You haven't really lived until you receive photos via Whatsapp of your husband at a bar with his beloved"
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Cindy DiTiberio
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Could a Postnuptial Agreement Save Your Marriage?
codifying the value of your caregiving work
Aug 27
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Cindy DiTiberio
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