The Mother Lode

Women Talking: Dating After Divorce

a conversation with Loretta from To the Bed

19 hrs ago • 

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November 2025

Cultural Cliff Notes

a behind the scenes post for paid subscribers

Nov 26 • 

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Why Therapy with a Narcissist Will Undo You

two therapists on narcissism in couples therapy, how to avoid the harm so many therapists unknowingly inflict, and how to tell if you're experiencing…

Nov 18 • 

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The Stories I Have Swallowed

on Lily Allen, Jen Hatmaker, Florence + the Machine, and the power and risks of telling the truth

Nov 11 • 

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The Story of The Mother Lode

celebrating four years in this space

Nov 4 • 

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October 2025

Life in the App Lane

on sexting, superswipes, and six months on the apps

Oct 28 • 

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Transition

on open hearts, perimenopause, and the awkward in-between

Oct 21 • 

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How to Leave

a guide for getting out

Oct 14 • 

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In Defense of The Tell

on the gross negligence of that New York Times article

Oct 7 • 

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September 2025

"By the time we got divorced, I found myself $30k in debt I didn’t know had been accrued by my husband"

The Divorce Diaries, 15

Sep 30 • 

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Couples Therapy and Abuse

don't give intimacy exercises when she needs an escape plan

Sep 23 • 

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The Power of Midlife Recalibration

on rebirth, renewal, and reinvention in our forties

Sep 16 • 

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