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The Burden I Carried Alone
stories I have swallowed, part one
Jan 20
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Cindy DiTiberio
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Stop Staying in Shitty Relationships
a conversation with Laura Danger of ThatDarnChat and No More Mediocre
Jan 13
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Cindy DiTiberio
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The Ultimate Divorce Resource Guide
a curated list of the support you need
Jan 7
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Cindy DiTiberio
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December 2025
Your Top Five Posts of 2025
Yes, it’s the last day of the year and like so many, I’m feeling reflective. These are the five most popular posts from The Mother Lode in 2025.
Dec 31, 2025
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Cindy DiTiberio
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My Favorite 15
an end of year compendium of essays from The Mother Lode
Dec 23, 2025
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Cindy DiTiberio
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Is Marriage Worth It?
my conversation with Gemma Hartley, author of Fed Up
Dec 16, 2025
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Cindy DiTiberio
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Gemma Hartley
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My New Metrics of Success
fighting the capitalistic, patriarchal need for us to always be achieving
Dec 9, 2025
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Cindy DiTiberio
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Women Talking: Dating After Divorce
a conversation with Loretta from To the Bed
Dec 2, 2025
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Cindy DiTiberio
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Loretta
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November 2025
Cultural Cliff Notes
a behind the scenes post for paid subscribers
Nov 26, 2025
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Cindy DiTiberio
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Why Couples Therapy with a Narcissist Will Undo You
two therapists on narcissism in couples therapy, how to avoid the harm so many therapists unknowingly inflict, and how to tell if you're experiencing…
Nov 18, 2025
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Cindy DiTiberio
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The Stories I Have Swallowed
on Lily Allen, Jen Hatmaker, Florence + the Machine, and the power and risks of telling the truth
Nov 11, 2025
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Cindy DiTiberio
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The Story of The Mother Lode
celebrating four years in this space
Nov 4, 2025
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Cindy DiTiberio
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