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Our Fair Play Discussion Signaled the End of My Marriage
a primer on Eve Rodsky's bestselling book
Feb 20, 2024
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Sex Is Not Your Duty
on centering women's desire, men's entitlement to sex, and the power of true consent
Jun 28, 2023
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When Couples Therapy Turns Cruel
how marriage teaches us to tolerate abuse
Jun 18
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Cindy DiTiberio
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Are We Really Splitting Up Over Chores?
housework is not bulls*%t and getting divorced over dishes
Dec 4, 2024
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Cindy DiTiberio
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Is This the End of Marriage?
On Sarah Manguso's Liars and whether women are done with marriage
Aug 14, 2024
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Getting Real About Married Sex
why wives don't desire marital sex from The Marriage Diaries
Jul 2
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Cindy DiTiberio
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Men Don't End Relationships
they sabotage them
Aug 5
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Cindy DiTiberio
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MDMA Therapy Helped Me Leave My Marriage
going in to get out
Jan 8
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Cindy DiTiberio
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"Being married can be its own kind of gaslighting"
A conversation with Kate Hamilton, author of MAD WIFE
Feb 5
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Cindy DiTiberio
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How to Leave
a guide for letting go
Jan 22
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Cindy DiTiberio
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Post-Mortem of a Marriage
unpacking attachment styles
May 13
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Cindy DiTiberio
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Inconvenient Knowings
scenes from the unraveling of a marriage
Nov 28, 2023
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Cindy DiTiberio
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