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What Are Men For? Volume 3
a conversation with Kate Washington, author of Midstream
 • Cindy DiTiberio and Kate Washington
The Ultimate Divorce Resource Guide
a curated list of the support you need
 • Cindy DiTiberio and Unhitched: Let's Talk Divorce
Is Marriage a Temporary Balm for Our Fear About the Future?
on not knowing how it ends
 • Cindy DiTiberio
The Marriage Diaries: Roommate Edition
a peek inside two sexless marriages
 • Cindy DiTiberio
The Financial Risks of Hetero Marriage
a conversation with Lane Anderson on prenups and postnups, inspired by Belle Burden's Strangers
 • Cindy DiTiberio and Lane Anderson
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When Holy Becomes Harmful
does religion set marriages up to fail? a conversation with Gemma Hartley
 • Cindy DiTiberio and Gemma Hartley
So, I Guess I Have a Boyfriend Now?
how I found myself in an actual relationship - but on my own terms
 • Cindy DiTiberio
Evangelicalism Taught Me to Prioritize Finding a Husband Over Being Loved Well
why their focus on marriage can backfire
 • Cindy DiTiberio
When the Battle Never Ends
a Divorce Diary update two years in the making
 • Cindy DiTiberio
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Essays & interviews on motherhood, marriage, and divorce
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Touch Me There—Reclaiming Desire, Power & Purpose in Midlife
Touch Me There—Reclaiming Desire, Power & Purpose in Midlife
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