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What Are Men For? Volume Two
a conversation with avalon
Apr 21
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Cindy DiTiberio
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avalon
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Falling in Love
does entering a relationship require an abdication of your freedom?
Mar 31
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Cindy DiTiberio
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The Power of Not This
learning to tune in to what I want
Feb 17
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Cindy DiTiberio
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Women Talking: What Are Men For?
a conversation with Rebecca Woolf
Feb 10
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Cindy DiTiberio
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Rebecca Woolf
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Women Talking: Dating After Divorce
a conversation with Loretta from To the Bed
Dec 2, 2025
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Cindy DiTiberio
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Loretta
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Life in the App Lane
on sexting, superswipes, and six months on the apps
Oct 28, 2025
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Cindy DiTiberio
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My Divorce Didn't Feel Like a Breakup
and why that first heartbreak hit so hard
Aug 19, 2025
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Cindy DiTiberio
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Men Don't End Relationships
they sabotage them
Aug 5, 2025
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Cindy DiTiberio
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The Single Life
the good, bad, and the ugly
Jul 15, 2025
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Cindy DiTiberio
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Rediscovering Desire
entering my wanting era
Jun 25, 2025
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Cindy DiTiberio
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Adventures of Getting on the Apps
read along as I create a dating profile in real time
Apr 2, 2025
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Cindy DiTiberio
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Is This the End of Marriage?
On Sarah Manguso's Liars and whether women are done with marriage
Aug 14, 2024
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Cindy DiTiberio
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