Oh my goodness this could have been plucked from my brain. I try to have so many micro conversations with my son (4) around bodily consent, around connection, around listening to eachother etc. I really believe that laying these foundations are so crucial so that we aren't just springing them onto a 13, 14, 15 year old who has had a lifetime of crossing boundaries and acting on blind impulse when it comes to other peoples bodies.
I could go on and on about this topic! thank you for speaking to it
My approach is small conversations as they come up. My five year old understands human reproduction, and I have separately explained to him what sex is (in terms of pleasure and playing with each other - adults playing with adults or teenagers playing with teenagers), but I did not connect sex with reproduction at all.
Brilliant. Absolutely brilliant. Going to gently broach each of these topics with my teen & tween. Thankfully they are both very open to talking to me and they know I’m “that mom” who is always going to be an open book because I wasn’t given any info as a kid.
I wish more parents would give sex talks like this...it would definitely help so many young people and create a much better foundation for them. It's a lot harder to unlearn harmful messages later in life.
Oh my goodness this could have been plucked from my brain. I try to have so many micro conversations with my son (4) around bodily consent, around connection, around listening to eachother etc. I really believe that laying these foundations are so crucial so that we aren't just springing them onto a 13, 14, 15 year old who has had a lifetime of crossing boundaries and acting on blind impulse when it comes to other peoples bodies.
I could go on and on about this topic! thank you for speaking to it
Thank you! You are on the right track. Esther Perel says these conversations should start around the age of four!
My approach is small conversations as they come up. My five year old understands human reproduction, and I have separately explained to him what sex is (in terms of pleasure and playing with each other - adults playing with adults or teenagers playing with teenagers), but I did not connect sex with reproduction at all.
Awesome. And yes it is a form of play. I love that frame.
Yes. 👏👏👏
Brilliant. Absolutely brilliant. Going to gently broach each of these topics with my teen & tween. Thankfully they are both very open to talking to me and they know I’m “that mom” who is always going to be an open book because I wasn’t given any info as a kid.
Thank you! And yes, be that mom!
I wish more parents would give sex talks like this...it would definitely help so many young people and create a much better foundation for them. It's a lot harder to unlearn harmful messages later in life.